To Mat James:

“Lol I don’t fucking understand you assholes; if I was selling a house you wouldn’t ask me if I could sell you horses too; what makes you think any hot chick who wants to do some fetish work is totally also interested in sleeping with some random sad-sack guy who is sad that his wife isn’t as hot as when she was a stripper? Do you read minds? What the fuck do selling my panties have to do with hooking up with strangers for unpaid sex? Are all women just whores to you? Why the HELL would I just sleep with you for free when I can just fuck my darling sweet husband, who thinks it’s funny that I can exploit men with panty fetishes? Jesus you can’t even spell but you think you’re such hot shit that 23 year old college grads will fall over themselves to hook up with you? God you don’t even know I had my husband and all my girlfriends laughing at your pathetic email. 

Just hire a prostitute dude.”

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Sadsack adventures on Craigslist

A friend of mine recently tried selling her panties on craigslist and had some luck. I wasn’t sure if that was still against the TOS, so I tried posting my own ad. Even though it got taken down within minutes, my inbox exploded with shitheads. 

Here is my ad: 

Hi there, 

I’m a 23 year old girl living in ______; I’ve been selling my panties online for a while but wanted to try selling local :) I’m blonde, blue-eyed, with very pale skin. I’m a size 4. If you want to see more pics just email me or go to the blog address in my photos <3 I’m willing to develop a longer term deal where if you want to buy from me regularly we can do that :) I’m willing to meet on ______—-I know the area well, and we can talk over sandwiches outside my favorite Italian deli. So, if you like what you see, make me an offer. My panties usually go for around $100 to $200 on Ebanned. 

Brent Mears writes: 

“I would just rather eat your pussy because you look like your pussy would get nice and wet I would suck you off till you cum in my mouth, and then I would do it 5 more times.”

He then helpfully attached this photo: 

Like someone put a baseball cap on a meatloaf.

I wrote back: 

“I don’t get why guys see one thing for sale and think the rest can be bought. All I offered was panties and a face to face meeting. If that’s not enough for you I’m sure you can find someone else who’s willing to accommodate you. ”

Like a true gentleman and scholar, this was his reply: 

“Oh I was’nt offering to buy anything I just thought you looked good and figure it would be nice to lick your pussy and make you cum in my mouth, but that sounds like to much pleasure for you„,huh Well anyway good luck on selling your panties thats as bad as me trying to sell my dirty socks„,lol”

….somehow….I think I’ll manage to live my entire life without ever regretting his generous offer to slobber all over my genitals FOR ABSOLUTELY NO MONEY AT ALL. 

GLTee@aol writes: 

“I would only buy if you come with them? Is that a possibility?  you look great in all the photos, I would say sensational…… I would love to buy you lunch, let me know?”

He sent along a photo; he’s definitely a silver fox of an older man. Which is kind of depressing, I guess? It keeps me sane to think that the people lurking on Craigslist hoping to find women who are willing to sleep with them even though said women never even mentioned anything of the sort in their ad are bridge-trolls lacking any spelling or finesse.

Still, on top of the irritation at being propositioned for something that I never, ever offered in the first place is intensified when said proposition treats me like I’m an accessory to my panties. 

Finally, the star of the show began with this cryptic one liner. Mat James writes: 

“R u willing for more?”

More? MORE? Like….more money for my panties, which are the ONLY THING I’ve offered today on the internet? 

“no i went we can meet and see if there is potenshal for more and not for money i am hot so dont need to do that but i need it to b nsa i am married and just looking for something on side just for 1 time so no matter how much u think i am hot or what ever i need to to b only 1 time and i would like to go eat first to make sure u ant a crazy chick and u can see i ant some phyco or something just a guy looking to stay hapy in his wifes life but things have got old and when she was a stripper i bought her everything she could ask for and now where r married she changed but i am happy but i want that how u say drive pashion u get the point so let me k know what u think”


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rosalarian: Inspired by this Comics Alliance article, which stated, regarding many female comic characters, “They read like men’s voices coming out of women’s faces.” This isn’t to say men can’t write good women, or shouldn’t write women. It’s great when anyone writes fantastic female characters. But as far as I’m concerned, a lot of comic writers have never written women at all, only hollow wooden sex puppets. (Prints of this if you want them.) I&#8217;ve always said that David Mack&#8217;s process for writing Kabuki begins with him wearing a woman suit and applying lipstick 40 times. 

rosalarian:

Inspired by this Comics Alliance article, which stated, regarding many female comic characters, “They read like men’s voices coming out of women’s faces.”

This isn’t to say men can’t write good women, or shouldn’t write women. It’s great when anyone writes fantastic female characters. But as far as I’m concerned, a lot of comic writers have never written women at all, only hollow wooden sex puppets.

(Prints of this if you want them.)

I’ve always said that David Mack’s process for writing Kabuki begins with him wearing a woman suit and applying lipstick 40 times. 

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mramarmoset: This is not intended as a swipe at anyone in an international/interracial relationship, but people like a guy I know who after two failed marriages insisted he would only get married again to a Latin American woman. Then he married a Colombian girl and dumped her because he decided she wasn’t putting out enough. I’ve seen similar stories on a lot of MRA sites I knew a wealthy white doctor who lived in LA, and who had &#8216;yellow fever&#8217; all his life. He married a Japanese woman, hoping to find her unsullied by Feminism&#8217;s suggestion that she be treated like a human being and not an exotic pet. The plan backfired&#8212;-not because she was just as modern and self-aware as any western woman (in many ways she was) but because he couldn&#8217;t handle the demands made on men in her conservative culture. It turns out he took for granted all the ways in which feminism makes sex and relationships easier to navigate, and he was left in the cold with no way to communicate his needs to a woman who&#8217;s needs were a mystery to him. They spent their final years together cheating on each other before finally divorcing.  Pre-feminist, conservative life seems like it would be simpler, but it only works if the people inhabiting that life are simple themselves.

mramarmoset:

This is not intended as a swipe at anyone in an international/interracial relationship, but people like a guy I know who after two failed marriages insisted he would only get married again to a Latin American woman. Then he married a Colombian girl and dumped her because he decided she wasn’t putting out enough. I’ve seen similar stories on a lot of MRA sites

I knew a wealthy white doctor who lived in LA, and who had ‘yellow fever’ all his life. He married a Japanese woman, hoping to find her unsullied by Feminism’s suggestion that she be treated like a human being and not an exotic pet. The plan backfired—-not because she was just as modern and self-aware as any western woman (in many ways she was) but because he couldn’t handle the demands made on men in her conservative culture. It turns out he took for granted all the ways in which feminism makes sex and relationships easier to navigate, and he was left in the cold with no way to communicate his needs to a woman who’s needs were a mystery to him. They spent their final years together cheating on each other before finally divorcing. 

Pre-feminist, conservative life seems like it would be simpler, but it only works if the people inhabiting that life are simple themselves.

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the truth is this… you are absolutely charming, dominant and you know exactly what you want… I’m a lonely guy… I want to have a purpose … a sense of belonging… when you make me your slave then I will have a purpose to go to work and when I come home and sit all alone i will have a purpose… you know what i mean

~ Socksniffer

aw. AW. AWWWW. 

I’m about to max out his credit cards. 

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oh my.. .amazing socks… intense filth!!

yeah they’re super gross
I don’t mind if you bid on them

I was going to beg you for it

guess I took all the fun out of that for you, eh?

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fucking panties being worn

…is my new favorite search term for my blog. 

I know this probably isn’t how they read it, but when I read that, I hear an angry young man complaining about the very fact that women wear undergarments: “fucking PANTIES being WORN! > : (“

→  0 notes  ♥  14 Sep 11 at 3pm

what the hell is a fot?

hi, stu here. i love your nasty sneakers on your me page!  thanx stu  o love them real nsty and gross! i a extreme fot thrall!  


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Enjoying the process of making my auction photos look like old polaroids.

I’m using this tutorial for a starting point, but I’ve tweaked the fill layers to get the atmosphere I like. 

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rosalarian: beatrixshrugged: rosalarian: This billboard went up by my house today. Lots of people here are incredibly angry that it exists. Lots of backlash against atheists for having the audacity to live in this city, or at all. Which just goes to show how much this billboard was needed. I’m happy it’s there. Can we try to live and let live, please? I’m tired of atheists and religious people bashing each other. It’s frustrating to watch. This isn’t bashing anyone. It merely states that you don’t need to be religious to be good. Considering so many atheists are told we cannot have morality without religion, this billboard has a message we don’t hear a lot. This isn’t about bashing religious people. It doesn’t say you can’t love or hope or care with a god. This is merely to say “Atheists are good people, too.” In conservative areas, atheists often feel silenced and alone. Atheists live in the closet in very much the same way LGBT people do, and hearing affirmations that we are not alone and not bad people brings immense comfort. Much like admitting LGBT people are good doesn’t mean straight people are bad, so admitting atheists are good people doesn’t mean religious people are bad. Hopefully this eases your frustration. There are plenty of billboards in my city alone that have a christian agenda&#8212;&#8212;abstinence, anti-choice, and the more direct &#8220;jesus saves and you&#8217;re going to HELLLLLL if you don&#8217;t bow and scrape before him&#8221;. I drive across the country and am enraged by the christian hatred I see displayed in huge billboards. These people are obviously well funded, but when a secular organisation tries to promote secularism I find it really hard to sympathize with anyone who feels &#8220;persecuted&#8221; by what is ultimately a loving, inclusive, hopeful message. The billboard isn&#8217;t saying &#8220;you&#8217;re an idiot if you believe in god&#8221;, it&#8217;s saying &#8220;you don&#8217;t need god to have a wonderful life.&#8221;

rosalarian:

beatrixshrugged:

rosalarian:

This billboard went up by my house today. Lots of people here are incredibly angry that it exists. Lots of backlash against atheists for having the audacity to live in this city, or at all. Which just goes to show how much this billboard was needed. I’m happy it’s there.

Can we try to live and let live, please? I’m tired of atheists and religious people bashing each other. It’s frustrating to watch.

This isn’t bashing anyone. It merely states that you don’t need to be religious to be good. Considering so many atheists are told we cannot have morality without religion, this billboard has a message we don’t hear a lot. This isn’t about bashing religious people. It doesn’t say you can’t love or hope or care with a god. This is merely to say “Atheists are good people, too.” In conservative areas, atheists often feel silenced and alone. Atheists live in the closet in very much the same way LGBT people do, and hearing affirmations that we are not alone and not bad people brings immense comfort. Much like admitting LGBT people are good doesn’t mean straight people are bad, so admitting atheists are good people doesn’t mean religious people are bad.

Hopefully this eases your frustration.

There are plenty of billboards in my city alone that have a christian agenda——abstinence, anti-choice, and the more direct “jesus saves and you’re going to HELLLLLL if you don’t bow and scrape before him”. I drive across the country and am enraged by the christian hatred I see displayed in huge billboards. These people are obviously well funded, but when a secular organisation tries to promote secularism I find it really hard to sympathize with anyone who feels “persecuted” by what is ultimately a loving, inclusive, hopeful message. The billboard isn’t saying “you’re an idiot if you believe in god”, it’s saying “you don’t need god to have a wonderful life.”

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